Port Richmond Partnership Panel

Last Monday, the Center for Leadership and Civic Engagement held a panel to discuss the Port Richmond Partnership. Many of us packed into the room and attentively listened to what the panelists and guest speakers had to say in reference to their hopes and dreams for the neighborhood. It was truly inspiring listening to how passionate each panelist was discussing their hopes and dreams for the betterment of the neighborhood. Although I have lived on Staten Island all my life, I did not know about the neighborhood of Port Richmond that well. I found the presentation on the history of the neighborhood to be very interesting. I never realized what a cultural melting pot Port Richmond was due to the influx of immigrants. I would have never thought that Port Richmond was the center for immigration or even commerce. I was a little taken back to see how Port Richmond went from such a thriving, commerce filled area to a poor neighborhood.

I am happy that I attended this panel. It has extended my knowledge of this neighborhood as well as given me a sense of the area that I will soon be spending my time in as I work as a mentor for a student at Port Richmond High School. Having a background on the culture of the area will help me understand the perspective of my student. Background knowledge of the environment the student encounters on the daily basis will hopefully assist me in forming a bond and create a level of mutual understanding.

The People Around Us Influence Our Decisions

After my music lesson on Saturday, my mom and I decided to go out to eat. As we sat down in the booth and looked at the menu, neither of us could make a decision of what to get. After the waitress came over to us multiple times asking if we were ready to order, my mom and I knew that we needed to make a decision. As I continued to look through the menu, I noticed that my mom was looking around the diner. When I asked her what she was doing, she said that she was looking to see what the people around us were eating to help her decide what to order. Then she asked me what I was thinking.

We couldn’t decide between breakfast or lunch. Then we both continued to survey the room thinking that if we were to see someone else’s order, something would strike us and a decision could be made. I find it intriguing how we were both looking to see something in order to make a decision, yet we were unable to decide based on what we had a taste for. In addition, we were looking for others to influence our decision as opposed to depending on a personal preference.

There have been many times when I have been out to eat and I have been interested in other people’s food over my own. On numerous occasions, I have found myself ordering one thing and then saying I should have ordered something else when I see another’s dish arrive. I’m not sure what causes this phenomena, but I am curious as to why one questions their own decisions based on another’s.

Food Cues in Manhattan

Cheryl and I ventured out into the city on Saturday, which we were planning on doing all week. On the ferry ride over, we decided to just wander through Central Park, and later enter a Broadway lottery for Matilda the musical, two things Cheryl hadn’t done yet. We walked around Central Park for about three hours, going the furthest up and back we could in that time.

We lost the lottery. That was sad, of course, and Cheryl still hasn’t seen a Broadway show (this weekend, hopefully.) But we decided to do cross another thing off of our NYC bucket list: Junior’s. People talk about Junior’s constantly, it’s the typical tourist spot. And it’s right across from the Shubert Theatre, so the second we saw it, we both said we were hungry.

Junior’s is famous for its hot chocolate and cheesecake, so can you guess what we ordered for dessert? Hot chocolate and cheesecake.

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Look at all that whipped cream.

Are tourists’ hunger in New York City affected by how famous a restaurant is? There are probably thousands of restaurants in the city, but Junior’s is popular, Cheryl and I were hungry, and it was cold. In the end, it was an AMAZING choice, but it made me wonder why we made that choice. Were we actually hungry, or did we just want to live out the tourist dream?

Islands of NYC

Recently I came across an article that seemed to be relevant to our class discussion, especially since it focuses on NYC geographical locations. A “New York City’s Top Ten” list, featured in issue 944 of Time Out New York and written by Joseph Alexiou, was a list of the city’s top ten islands. The list included some places which fit in with this month’s spooky theme such as Hart Island which has a deceased population of a over a million since it was the burial place for the area’s unclaimed dead.unnamed-5 North Brother Island came in second on the list. That was the place which housed Typhoid Mary for her last years of life. They also named some relevant places concerning oysters and clams such as Robbins Reef and Ruffle Bar. The oyster trade was something crucial to New York’s development and here we have some easy to see locations still being referenced in a modern magazine. Robbins Reef is very easy to see from afar, but not so easy to visit. If you take the Staten Island ferry, you’ll be able to see the small island just after departure, north west of the docks. It’s technically in New Jersey waters, but maybe they chose to ignore it. If you want a closer look, you can go on a virtual tour of the island here. The other destination they mentioned was Ruffle Bar. This sandbar in Jamaica Bay was one of the great places to harvest oysters before it was ruled too polluted for shellfish in 1915. There’s no convenient way to get to the island, but here are some pictures if you’d like to see what the island looked like in 1924, 1951, or 2008. If you’d like to read the whole list, let me know! I have a copy and will hold on to it for the rest of the semester for anyone who wants a look.

Shannon Bailey

Delicious Orchards

Last Saturday, my family and I went to a place called Delicious Orchards in Colts Neck, New Jersey. We go there every fall with the sole intention of buying apple pies. Delicious Orchards is a country food market that is visited by over 2.5 million people a year. It includes a bakery, produce section, dairy section, seafood, organic, and even candy section. Whenever we go, I always go straight to the bakery section for the pies. Sometimes I just stand there and watch the decisions people make on what pie to get. There are many options through a selection of a variety of flavors including cherry, blueberry, peach, apple, apple crumb, and pecan.

I watched as several customers on line shouted to family members to help them with their decision. They would debate back and forth over flavor choice. What I found interesting was one couple and their exchange. The man asked the woman her flavor preference of which pie to pick. When she replied sugar free apple, he made a face of disgust. He said, “Sugar free? Who would eat anything sugar free, that’s gross? Why bother eating it them?” I’m sure that’s the reaction most of us would have as well. It’s amazing how much we rely on sugar to enhance the taste of our food and the thought of eliminating it is ludicrous. It appears that the only consumer that would opt for a sugar free pie would be someone who is suffering from a health condition that warrants the choice. Would it be so terrible to eliminate some sugar from our diet even if we weren’t forced to?

Is a “Diner Portion” Size Universal?

Last time my parents were here to visit, we went in search of a spot to find breakfast before they drove back to our home in Connecticut. When we where searching, we found a small but well reviewed diner. unnamedThe Staten Island Diner seemed like a nice enough spot to grab a bite to eat. The interior was bright and welcoming, and those inside seemed to be enjoying their meal. Anyone who is a native to the Island and have had the pleasure of dining here before, may have their own opinion on the spot, but for us it was a great and easy place to get some food. Just like many other diners, when we got the menu, we saw that it had pages and pages of options. Not only did they have pancakes and french toast, but they had entire rows of toppings and flavors. This was something that is pretty typical of a diner unnamed-1environment so I didn’t thing much of it, and ordered Nutella and peanut butter pancakes because I was feeling particularly indulgent and why not? I’m young. When the food arrived all looked good and we couldn’t wait to dig in. But in my pancakes, I had a tiny symbol starting back at me. Stuck into my flapjacks was a tiny American flag. I thought this was ironic considering the size of the meal (which was much larger than I had assumed it would be). This got me thinking, is this obsession with large portion sizes and the diner mentality of bigger being better a universal thing across the country? unnamed-2Has every diner you’ve been to had the same staple in size? Or is it just something that is prevalent on the East Coast? I was wondering if anyone else has had experience with this and could share their thoughts. Here is a picture of my meal. Though delicious, it was definitely too much for me to eat in one sitting, and was unfortunately at the mercy of an unprepared customer. Hopefully some of you who have been across the country can add to this post. It the size of a ‘diner portion’ standard?

Shannon Bailey

What Really is the “Ideal” Body Type?

While watching “Women’s Ideal Body Types Throughout History” it really amazed me how such varying body types were accepted at certain times in society. The “ideal” woman’s body type has taken on a number of forms over the past 3,000 years. This is partially due to the media who constantly either bashes or praises certain body types. They put high stress on girls in their teenage years through adulthood which makes them alter their body figures to fit society’s standards. However, beauty standards are constantly changing, especially for women. Every body type has at some point been “ideal; while this may sound like bad news, it’s actually immensely freeing to realize it’s pointless to make your body fit in with a trend. Your body is your body which means it’s not meant to be altered to fit a fashion statement. Many people who watched this video completely looked past the true meaning behind it and rather just observed the models. This shows that many people in society today are able to see beyond just the physical attributes of a woman while others are only focused on the woman’s image. As humans, everyday we seek to find and change the wrong and bad qualities of our physical image in order to be accepted and liked by society. But who are we fooling? We spend so much time preoccupied with the constant changing trends that we lose sight on our growing obsession with physical perfection. We should always remember that yesterday’s ideal standard will evolve into something completely different tomorrow. Since the ideal body has been changed so much throughout the years there is no doubt that it will continue to change in the years to come. There will never be a constant standard that every women in the world is trying to reach simultaneously. In addition, instead of trying to achieve this so called “perfect” body type, women should try and obtain a regular healthy lifestyle and body type that fits their own individual “ideal” standard.

Port Richmond Highschool

On October 8th, my classmates and I visited Port Richmond Highschool. Our learning community teachers have required us to be mentors to Port Richmond students. Arriving at Port Richmond Highschool we were taken on a tour of the school, mainly focussing on their culinary program. Students once a day have a cooking class where they cook various meals. Monday and Tuesday the students discuss the foods they will be making, Wednesday and Thursday they begin cooking and on Friday they all eat.  As a student coming from a private catholic highschool this was an extremely different environment. I never had the oppurtunity to be in a culinary program in my highschool. These students were able to make various foods that i can not even make, i find that amazing. My job as a mentor is to help these students and guide them into college and their future. Walking into the classroom i was nervous because i had no idea what to say to these students from the minute that i was in their shoes a couple of years ago. I found a group of students and i started a conversation with a girl named Allison. She was extremely welcoming and opened towards me. Im excited to mentor Allison to be able to guide her in her path to college because i know the process can be extremely stressful. I enjoyed my trip to port richmond im excited to go back.

Port Richmond High School Experience

My visit at Port Richmond High school was very pleasurable. Being a private school student my whole life, walking into public school and getting to know what it has to offer was very knowledgable. I was in shock when I saw the culinary class they offered because my school never had such a class. I assumed the students just learned easy food dishes inside a regular class room but I was wrong. The culinary room had stoves and many utensils for the students to use. I was also intrigued when I saw the garden the culinary program and Wagner nursing program had started because it allows the students to grow their own food and use it in their cooking class.

Before walking into the class room I was some what nervous because I didn’t know what I would talk about with my mentee. I knew I was in their positions just 2/3 years ago which allowed me to feel connected to them in a way. But once I assigned myself to a group I was able to jump right into talking. I enjoyed all of the students because they were very welcoming and opened to meeting up during the week..

I think this partnership with Port Richmond High school is a great thing because we are able to help these high school students get an idea of what college life is about and assist them in finding a career path they are interested in. I also like the idea of being there for them during a time when the college process very difficult and they are able to ask us questions in order to help them. I am really looking forward in meeting up with my men-tee and being involved in this partnership.

Port Richmond HS Visit

Last Thursday, our learning community arrived at Port Richmond High School. This was part of our experiential learning and our task was to mentor the students in the culinary arts program at the high school. At first, I was nervous. I didn’t know what that entailed. How can I mentor someone in the culinary arts when I wasn’t too familiar with the topic? Would my mentee even listen to my advice?

When we first arrived we were given a tour of the program and got a look inside the kitchens and the garden outside. I loved the whole aspect of the program and would have loved to partake in it if it had been available at my high school. When we were introduced to the class we were going to mentor, it was a bit awkward, but I realized they were just as nervous meeting us. I introduced myself to one of the girls at a table in the back. Her name was Maya. She was extremely sweet and I realized that we even had a few things in common. Both of us are picky eaters and we both enjoy baking. It was then I understood the purpose of the mentor-mentee relationship. We were both supposed to learn and grow from our experience together this semester. This Friday, my friends and I coordinated to meet with our mentees together. I can’t wait for the opportunity to get to know my mentee even better.