For the most part I really loved Real Women Have Curves, but because of recent discussions I may have a minor problem with this movie. If I had seen this movie a month ago, I would have 100% loved it, but now I’m a little unsure.
The reason for my love of the movie is because of its fantastic message. I think encouraging all women to be comfortable in their skin is an amazing thing. Everyone should feel confident and attractive. We see Ana struggle with this concept for the entire movie. Her mother, a person that should be supporting her, is the one that constantly reminds her of her weight. Her mother is clearly the antagonist and makes Ana feel extremely self-conscious. Ana overcomes this adversary and leaves her verbally abusive mother to pursue a better life in NYC.
This is empowering to more than just those struggling with their weight. It empowers women, minorities, the poor, and anyone that feels they cannot do something to be brave and do what makes them happy. The movie has a truly beautiful message.
However, because of writings by David Callahan (that social pressure should be placed on the overweight to make them feel shamed into losing weight), I have slightly mixed feelings. I completely believe that everyone should be encouraged to be who they want to be, but being overweight isn’t just about self esteem. Being overweight or obese can cause serious health problems. While this movie encourages women to feel beautiful no matter their weight, it may also encourage some to not try to lose weight.
This feeling beautiful while overweight may cause women to think it is not important to try to strive to lose weight for their health. Weight should not important on the societal level as this movie suggests, but it is important regarding individual health. Also, I do not completely agree with Callahan on the shame aspect of his article. Although some people may respond well to tough love, not everyone does. Everyone is different and needs to have their own approach to losing weight. We must cater to the individual, not the masses.