Cheryl wrote a similar blogpost and I thought it was an amazing idea, so I thought I’d respond and include my own thoughts. We had the same mentee.
Like Cheryl, I was under the impression they would assign us mentees, and assign them mentors. When we first met them, it was a big free-for-all, like Cheryl said. I think this could have been helped if we were paired up and given a whole class period to get to know each other, with a game or a questionnaire of some sort.
And the mentees had no idea what was going on when we first got there. I think the whole program could have been much better if they were volunteers who were actually looking to have help. Or maybe beforehand, we could have been paired based on our interests. The high schoolers were uninterested in us, like Cheryl said, and this was mainly because they are culinary arts students and we are not. We tried discussing our classes with them, like we were supposed to do, and they had little interest. And they were busy cooking, which I remarked to many people like Brandon Hart who all suggested we invite our mentees to Wagner. My mentee did not have a cell phone, just a number that no one ever answered we were never given their email addresses. I understand many have difficult home lives, but communication could have been improved between the high school and Wagner.
My last thought is the kitchen tour the high school students attended. I think it was strange how the staff and cooks that gave the tour acted as though the students there may only work in a kitchen like Wagner’s, they wouldn’t work in a prestigious restaurant or bakery. I could tell my mentee was insulted by this, and maybe her fellow classmates were, too, but no one was going to say it.
I thought it was nice meeting my mentee, she was very nice even if she didn’t know what to do when Cheryl and I came for our visits. I’m glad I met her, I just wish the program could have helped me do more for her.